Helping Seniors Adjust after a Move

Most elderly individuals start to need help with daily living as they age. To get help with daily tasks, seniors often move in with a family member or into an assisted living center.

When your elderly family member needs to move, the process involves more than simply setting a moving date. Many seniors need help handling the physical and mental stress that moving often causes. If you are helping a senior move, you can make the process easier by helping your loved one settle into his or her new home.

Here are some ways family members can help seniors adjust to life after moving.

What Happens When Older Adults Relocate?

Relocating in later life often brings emotional and physical challenges. Leaving a long-time home can feel like losing a part of oneself—routines, your space, and the memories tied to them. This shift can trigger Relocation Stress Syndrome (RSS), a condition that causes anxiety, confusion, and emotional distress in seniors.

The change in environment may feel overwhelming, especially if the move happens quickly or without your full preparation. Familiar habits and surroundings offer comfort, and losing them can affect overall well-being. That’s why planning with empathy and maintaining some continuity, like keeping favorite items or routines, can ease the transition.

Make Unpacking as Easy as Possible

You might put unnecessary stress on your loved one if you rush through the unpacking process. Your older family member may have decades’ worth of possessions to sort through. Take time to help your senior family member sort through his or her possessions as he or she unpacks.

As you sort, focus more on helping with the physical needs of moving rather than advising on what to keep and throw away. Your loved one may have placed sentimental value on items that may not make sense to you. If you pressure him or her to throw away these sentimental items, your loved one may become anxious or upset.

You’ll also benefit from hiring a moving company to handle the packing and moving. This way, you and your loved one can take the necessary time to unpack and sort through items.

Acknowledge Their Feelings of Loss

Many seniors live in the same home for many years before moving. Even if moving was your loved one’s idea, he or she may still deal with feelings of loss.

Acknowledge your loved one’s sadness after the move. Do your best to help your loved one cope with these feelings and try to help him or her focus on the positive reasons for moving.

Help Decorate

A great way to help your loved one feel at home is by helping unpack and decorate. When family members are involved in the decorating process, you can help your senior family members feel more excited about the change. On the other hand, seniors who are left alone to unpack in their new space may feel lonely right out of the gate.

Encourage your elderly family member to decorate with personal items that have significant meaning, such as pictures or medals. Some items may bring back memories for your family member, and he or she may want to share stories with you. Be kind and listen to your family member’s stories as you unpack and set up various items.

When decorating, keep things simple and clear to avoid overwhelming your family member. Offer limited choices instead of open-ended questions. For example, ask, “Do you prefer the red curtains or the blue ones?” instead of “Should we put up curtains?”

Encourage Your Loved One to Socialize and Get Involved

One of the most frightening parts of moving for seniors is feeling unfamiliar with new surroundings. You can help you loved one overcome unfamiliarity by helping him or her feel welcome and involved in the new home.

If you are helping your senior family member move into an assisted living center, help him or her talk and make friends with other residents while he or she is with you. Your loved one will have more people to socialize with if you help him or her make friends. If your loved one is moving in with you, encourage him or her to get involved in local senior activities.

Avoid getting pushy with your loved one if he or she seems uninterested in socializing or making new friends. He or she may need time to adjust before becoming social in a new setting.

Emotional Support for Senior Moves

If your loved one is moving into an assisted living center, make sure you visit often, especially in the first week after the move. When you visit your loved one, you can help him or her feel less alone.

Talk to your loved one and go with your instincts on how frequently you should visit. Your loved one may also enjoy visits from other people, like friends, siblings, and children, so encourage other family members to visit often.

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